hi all , im sad

hi all ..and everybody .

if u guy know digitral . well im digitral ex gf.

and he leave me without saying a word and run away from home .

and he abandon me , pretty and luilui . he ask me to leave the house , so i very confruse . anyone ..pls advise

OMG...what happen dear....

what happen hui chyi??

eLsie wrote:OMG...what happen dear....

one of the reason he leave me is he write on the letter say he dun like furkids

sinv wrote:what happen hui chyi??

i hope everyone here can give me suggestion what i should do next . i can't just leave pretty and luilui .

if i move , my dad place not allow dog . what i can do now .

he ask me to leave his family and ask me leave the house

Can you both problem be solved?Is there anyway back?You staying with Digitral family now? If you have to move are you moving back to your family?
If you need a temporary place for luilui n pretty i willing to help. What about long term solution?You have any idea?

did u guys sit down and talk about it? or call?

sinv wrote:Can you both problem be solved?Is there anyway back?You staying with Digitral family now? If you have to move are you moving back to your family?
If you need a temporary place for luilui n pretty i willing to help. What about long term solution?You have any idea?

nope , digitral want to separate with me . i dun think he wan to face to face and solve the problem with me . yes , i staying with his family now . that's why he ask me leave his family . then he will back once he know i leave . that's why i dunno know sinv , i very very sad.

you want talk to me thru msn?i pm u my msn.

sinv wrote:you want talk to me thru msn?i pm u my msn.

sinv , i very very sad.

i hope got people can hear my thing .
add me msn : feather_sakura@hotmail.com

eLsie wrote:did u guys sit down and talk about it? or call?

nope , he didn't . he run away from home . and want me leave the house . he don't even wanna talk to me

dont be sad and be strong with it...now what u need to do is "what u should do with the 2 furkids"

OMG...let me add ur msn...
we can talk in msn...

my goodness... one of the reason is he dun like furkids? Sounds unreasonable??!? He cares a lot of luilui last time, well from what he said though..

How can he just leave like that OMG..

since he did all that by avoiding u...might as well u move on...no point staying back n b sad for a guy who do not know how to appreciate u..bout ur furkids....i biliv it's not a big problem...many of us here are willing to take care of them for the time being...i do not know wat happened between u guys...wat i can say is..."move on with ur life"

yenlu wrote:my goodness... one of the reason is he dun like furkids? Sounds unreasonable??!? He cares a lot of luilui last time, well from what he said though..

How can he just leave like that OMG..

yenlu, i guess they have other reasons too as we outsider might not understand. Let them sort it out and we just see what we can helps.

ya...thr must be some other reason....
I have been given hui chyi one website to find room in PJ if she wan to move out...we juz c wat we can help...

sigh.. I just can say irresponsible guy..

important thing we must do now is support her since she open the thread to seek guidance and help. Dont talk about who and who's mistake already. We all learn from mistake

it sounds like an excuse to be honest... anyway, the only reasonable way was to sit down and talk things out. if he didnt mind you to move in with 2 dogs back then, then he shouldnt be using it as an excuse now.

if he only wish to talk after you've move your furkids, many of us here are willing to let your furkids take shelter for a short while.
take care. cheers.

ya i agree with siesie, not the time to blame each other, actually relationship btw 2 person really difficult for others to comment. since whatever happen is happen, why not be strong and plan what to do next?

I second Sinv, MOVE ON and plan for the next coming days

MasterAlvin wrote:it sounds like an excuse to be honest... anyway, the only reasonable way was to sit down and talk things out. if he didnt mind you to move in with 2 dogs back then, then he shouldnt be using it as an excuse now.

if he only wish to talk after you've move your furkids, many of us here are willing to let your furkids take shelter for a short while.
take care. cheers.

If i am not mistaken, the 2 dogs stay with the guy since they bought and adopted it lor...

yea huichyi, a lot ppl has offer help, but you need to find a long term solution.

thx everyone for the help ..really

well he did move back to his own house already . and he agree me to stay (which is not same room )

i will pay rental so i still can keep luilui and pretty however pretty need to put at downstair already , cuz the room is smaller , so i have no choice .

actually he tell me he doesn't like furkid , he just buat wayang ( meaning tat he doesn't like furkid at all , he just hough i happy and he never mind by tat time ) so i trust tat he doesn't like dogs too . because when he back , never see them also , even luilui and pretty happy and see him back .

yenlu wrote:sigh.. I just can say irresponsible guy..

i feel he irresponsible when come to furkid part.

i mean i really can't leave LuiLui and pretty also . but luckily Pretty really behave well and quiet , that's why Kalvin's mum still want to keep her